Is loneliness the new trend?

A few years ago, I came across a woman I used to know. Talking with her and asking her what she did the last summer, she told me about her vacations and that she was alone. Since she’s very attractive, it seemed strange to me that she was alone.

Her friends, she told me, they were already married so she had no one to go out with (something that stands to everyone over his 30s). “What about a boyfriend?“, I asked her to get the following answer:

A boyfriend? What to do with a boyfriend? To have him around and not fuck me? There are no men today my friend, they have vanished, most of them are momma’s boys and they do not know how to make love, even the rabbits are better than the most today’s men. They can not satisfy women, I’m not a nymphomaniac, I just can’t be satisfied from the men, so I’m better alone.

But what about today? Is what this woman said something rare so we don’t have to take it seriously? Surely women have a sexual freedom that older generations did not ever imagine. If you visit a nightclub, which is full of young people (around the age of 20 or below), you may notice that the young people are not too “erotic”.

I mean that you will not see many couples being together, and you will usually see more friends, either from school or somewhere else, and it is something that seems strange to me, if we think that the new generation has full freedom and of course access in many ways of communication, in relation to people a few decades ago. And if we compare today with the yesterday, there is certainly a tremendous increase in men who look too weak and too feminine.

And although you may see many “sets” that being “mixed”, often by friends and colleagues, nowadays rarely you see a man approach a girl (and I am not talking about those who are involved in the PU community, but the classic approaching by everyone), which makes you wonder if the young people are finally looking for sex or they simply want to find a girl and just be together, so they can avoid the family asking about their sexual life.

I think that men, as time passes, become less and less “males,” while we behave too feminine. And it’s not something I just noticed, but it’s something that concerns others too, so let me show you some studies, before continue.

A recent study tell us that millennial generation turning their backs on sex is in the highest numbers since the 1920s [1].

Another study has shown that young people (Millennials) turn their backs to sex after having sex and they have sex for the first time after their 20s [2]. And of course I know that there are also 15-year-olds who make sex like rabbits, but here we are talking about the mass rather than isolated incidents. The strangest thing would be if the boys who have sex at 15 years old was more and only a few who did not, not the opposite that happens today.

And this is not something that’s happening now. For example, since 2006, the Japanese began to worry about the growth of “Herbivores”, young people (less than 40 years old) who ignoring sex completely, but they like to watch porn and surf online (reminds you of something?) [3, 4, 5].

And when you read news about Japanese people who are virgins up to the age of 34, then something is happening in this country [6, 7].

If anything, the near future will provide many alternative solutions.

And we are not talking about a few dozen people, but for millions [8]. That’s why the women in Japan have “fallen in love” with a gorilla and are queuing to see him at a zoo in Japan, even pointing to his masculinity (some compared her to their husbands, saying the gorilla is more masculine), thus they make him a cake for the Valentine’s Day [9, 10, 11, 12, 13].

And it’s not only about the Japanese. For example, in Britain, the quality of couples’ sexual life has been greatly declined since 1990, while they prefer watching their favorite TV Shows through services that allow users to watch an entire season instantly [14, 15], such as “Netflix”, and according to another study, the myth who wants today’s young people to have great times and having sex all the time, has now been busted [16].

Yes, the young men have great times, drinking and partying [17], but in sex they somewhere stuck. According to a study, sex problems do not only affect middle age and older people — teens and young adults have difficulties with sex too [18].

It seems that this tendency has not been left unaffected even the Sweden [19], where, according to the country’s health minister, the latest sex survey of the Swedes took place 20 years ago, and all the data and surveys that have seen the “light” of publicity shows a decrease in Swedish sexual activity. Indeed, according to a “Futurologist”, in 2025 women will do more sex with robots than with men [20].

In Sweden again, there are reports that most men are gay [21], which may justify women’s “love” for the refugees and their permanent residence there.

Penguin returned to his nest, found his… wife with another penguin, they fought and finally she chose the other penguin. What times…

And in another study [22, 23], researchers found that young people up to 35 years of age, prefer food than sex, because they think that sex is a lot of work for them. In fact, 53% of respondents said that food was their favorite social activity, and 56% thought food shopping was one of their favorite pastime.

So what’s wrong?

Surely sex is not at the level we might think it is and I think there is a great responsibility from men. That’s why women prefer having sex with migrants/refugees, where some of them may having sex with multiple migrants, since they do not find what they want in sex (Ok, kisses and cuddles are good, but good sex is what they want) [24, 25].

Men are at risk of losing their identity. Everyone is attacking them and soon, saying that you are proud to be a man will cause you problems in social networks (hate and racist comments, etc.). Gay community does everything it can to convince the world that to be a gay is something you must be proud about and that everyone must agree with them or why not, to be on their side. And when men starting wear makeup, then something is wrong today [26].

To remember how real men behave. The next generations will scream with horror when they see such behavior, from the media’s brainwash and their dissolved masculinity from the system. And I’m not a homophobic, I am just bored with gay’s great presentation from the media and their behavior like “we are a minority, we will say and do what we want, the world is with us.”

And although my point is that today’s diet is actively involved in this declined desire for sex (increased estrogen in men, reduced testosterone and libido, hence no interest in sex), a serious problem is also the increase in porn watching, where it causes countless problems in sexuality. But for me, it is mainly due to the plastic junk we eat, as well as the system who growing beta men. But really, if a man has reduced testosterone, he certainly will not have the same “aggression” or behavior towards women.

For example, in 2006, scientists looked at the fish in the Potomac River and found something strange. Although female fish were normal, the males however, instead of their reproductive system (sperm), had eggs [27]. Yes, the males had eggs inside them!!!

On the same year, a study revealed that more and more young people are dealing with impotence and lack of interest in sex [28]. Yes, we are talking about young men at universities, not old men. You should not even listen the words “erectile dysfunction (ED)” and “reduced libido” from young men under their 40s, not even for joke!

And do not forget the research that wants the current young men to have half the quantity of sperm from previous generations.

What a girl’s willing to do in order to arouse him (and have sex with her, maybe?)

In short, our diet causes many problems in masculinity and our sexuality in general. That’s why “special” pills are sold like candies, while new formulations make their appearance, such as the Viagra mouth spray that perks up blokes in seconds [29].

But is not only that, we could just change our diet and everyone becomes an alpha male. But is another problem, a bigger one, the system itself.

Many times I have wrote that men today look and behave like boys and not like men. But what do women think of a man who does not look and behave like a real man?

With a friend of mine, we went to a woman who was a bit slutty, in order my friend to get to know her. She avoided talking to him all the time, despite his attempt to engage in the conversation. At some point I asked her what was her problem and she told me he was a mommy’s boy, and most likely he was a virgin.

I told her that she is wrong and I ask her what’s her problem if he was a virgin, virgins do not are humans? She told me that the men who are so shy, turning her off and even when she just saw him, she thought that he could “finish” before he even touch her, so she told me, “So, what can I do with him, do you think I will understand something is sex?“.

So you understand if you seem and act like a “beta” male, like a man with no confidence or a strong presence, then how do you want to approach 9-10s and to pick them up? And, no, trust me, NEGs and “behave like an alpha male” can’t help you, sorry, women are not idiots.


Women enjoy good sex, in addition to the cuddles and hand grips on the beach. Men have begun to avoid sex, but instead they want just to have a girlfriend for companionship. Women in their attempt to find good sex, they do not hesitate to enter the camps of illegal immigrants (aka refugees) to find it.

Do not think that women go to the refugees’ camps because they want to help them? The sex with them is what they are looking for [30], a kind of sex that their guy/man/lover (sometimes and all of them together) can not offer to them.

Lastly, the term “Half-Night-Stand” has also been “invented” [31], where they can leave him cold, if the sex is not good or if he can’t get fully hard (a problem many young men have).