Last month, I was going out every day to “pickup” girls, and I spend more time infield than ever before. Day game, Night game and everything between. I did a lot of approaches and I felt like the first days I was new to this thing and I had a lot energy about. What I can see now, is that the game is changing…
The new generation of girls and women, are changing the game. Take for example women who are in their 40s. They grew up in more innocent times, they spent their time reading, going to cinemas or going out for flirting, etc. These women wanted more romance and the things to go slowly. Hours of talking on the phone, a lot of SMS and so on.
But now, this generation of social networks and duck faces, has nothing to do with the previous generations. If you approach girls between 18-24 years old, you can understand that these girls want another type of game. The most girls are somehow “stupid”, with their eyes on their mobile every moment.
They don’t have time to talk to other people, because they are too busy to update their status or upload new photos showing more duck face. Of course there are many girls that are not like this, but the majority is.
These girls can have sex more easily, no strings attached, they are having more dirty mind and… mouth, even from older guys. You don’t have to talk a lot with these girls, so the deep conversations (travel, dreams, etc) are not an option and leave these subjects for more serious girls.
Competition has become more intense, particularly from Facebook and other social networks, where they can flirt with anyone.
Your game must be tight, you should be stronger and have more confidence and you have to move things to sex quickly, especially if you approach young girls (between 18-24yrs). If you are shy, or you are afraid to move things forward, or even if you are a romantic guy, you will hit the wall.