Chasing women is a waste of time if you don’t know how to attract them.
So what attracts girls? Things that are out of the ordinary. If you following what everyone else does, then no one will ever notice you walking down the street, or in any location for that matter. By following what everyone else does lead to catastrophic results when trying to attract women.
Never being a follower or try to do what everyone else does. Being a follower is boring and speaks a lot about your personality. It shows that you are insecure to try new things and that you are afraid of attention.
But the trick to being noticed is not to dress up in weird colors, but to add one interesting item to your physical appearance. There are a few guidelines for selecting the proper attire that will make women notice you and attract them without making you look like a fool.
First things first, you should take into consideration what kind of social setting you will be in so you can choose the proper clothing and accessories.
For example, if you’re going to a club, then you can go all out with outlandish clothing and accessories. However, if you’re going to the library, it would be more effective to carefully choose one single attention drawing accessory.
For clubs, keep in mind that you want to look different than everyone else. There is so much competition in the clubs, that you have to work hard in order for the women to notice you.
If everyone else is dressed up with expensive clothing, then wearing something cheap will work better. You’ll automatically be classified as the ‘guy who doesn’t care’, which can be very attractive.
If you’re at a place where people are dressed like bums, then feel free to dress up a little more and you’ll automatically be seen as ‘the only classy guy’ in the place.
Sometimes clothing itself can make a large difference, however, accessories can further improve your magnetism throughout the day. Something unique that represents you is the ideal thing and people will notice and comment on it.
The more out-of-the-ordinary your accessories are, the more you will get noticed. However, you must be able to continue the conversation and match the boldness of your accessory with your personality. Once you learned how to attract girls, you’ll need to learn how to keep them.
The attitude that you have is more important than all the clothes, money and looks in the world. You may hear it many times, but personality is more important to women than looks. More about this attitude in future posts.