As we will see, there are three types of men.
–AFC’s. The men with a little on not experience with women. They have insecurities about themselves and they are afraid of the women. They behave as good as possible with them.
–Players (or PUAs). The men who are trying to improve themselves or trying to meet as many women as possible. Also the men who know how to behave and talk with women, the men who never get friendzoned and those who make love with them.
–“Jerks” or the bad boys, as they are known, the men who are disrespectful with women and the men women always prefer. They are also brutal with them.
The bad guy gets the girl idea is difficult to be accepted by most men, especially if they are AFCs. Have you ever seen a girl you know to be with someone who you think he’s a “bad boy” and you told her to leave him?
Her answer is always the same, that he will change someday and he will become a good guy. So, she is trying to make him change, hoping one day he become a good guy.
Women usually are interesting to have a relationship with a man she have made some effort to win, in contrast to a guy who is AFC and he gives his balls to her immediately.
In comparison, try to tell a girl you know, that her boyfriend is a very nice guy. Usually she will try to defend him and she will tell you that he’s not a nice guy and sometimes he’s a “bad boy”. This means that women don’t like the good guys, except if they are their bros.
But, someone can ask, why so many women are with men who are “nice guys”?
The answer is simple. Women are seeking for their ideal man. Inside them, there is this “Prince with the white horse” mentality.
The truth is that with time and as they grow, this idea dilutes. So if this “Prince” never comes to her, they will search for something similar or, at least, someone to be with her, so they don’t be alone. If she’s in a relationship, she’s more secure and has more confidence.
So, if a woman is with a nice guy, most of the times means that she could’n find a better man.